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No time to plan for romance or just need a romantic idea in a pinch? These quick and easy romantic ideas can be done at the spur of the moment.
1. Warm your loves bath towel in the dryer while they’re in the shower.
2. Go to the mall and split $20 between you and your love. Split up and find surprises for a romantic or seductive evening together. Keep your findings a surprise until that evening.
3. Stick a note on the remote control, “Come turn me on!”
4. Go to the movie theater just to make out. Get there early so you can sit in the back row.
5. Cut different sized hearts from colored paper. Write love messages on them such as "I love your smile", and "You make me laugh." Hide the hearts throughout the house for your love to find.
6. Be extra nice when your love has had a bad day.
7. Make wishes together by tossing coins in fountains every chance you get.
8. Hide a love note in your love’s pants or coat pocket.
9. The slightest change in your normal routine can spark romance. Try using candles for mood lighting. They come in all shapes, sizes and smells. Aromatherapy candles are great for setting a mood and pheromone candles act as an aphrodisiac.
10. Write down your romantic fantasies and then pick a night to share them with each other.
11. Plan ahead; mark all the special upcoming days on your calendar.
12. Tonight, eat dinner by candlelight.
13. Plant a note or two in a book your love is reading. Write "I love you," “I want you," or "XOXOXO."
14. Take a candlelit shower together.
15. Go to a coffee shop - just to sit together and talk. Or get coffee to go - go for a long scenic drive together.
16. Be naughty, play hooky together. Do whatever you want together.
17. Drive for an hour or two just to have a picnic or stop at a restaurant you've never been at.
18. While your love is taking a shower, sneak in and write, "I love you!" on the steamed mirror.
19. Next time you're walking anywhere, grab your love's hand or walk arm and arm.
20. Sit by the fire together roasting marshmallows or drinking wine.
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( 3 / 754 )In nature, the attraction between mates is determined by a philosophy of survival of the fittest. The mate that is chosen is the one that is most likely to breed strong, healthy offspring. In many animal societies the alpha male will be the only male in the pack, and it will be his job to impregnate the females in order for the species to survive.
Many of the male members of the human world look upon this strange situation with a small touch of wistfulness. What would it be like to have your own harem? What they cannot see is that the alpha male has become the alpha male not by birthright but by having proved over and over again that he is strong enough and intelligent enough to lead the pack-and to keep it. When the alpha male is challenged by another male for possession of his pack he must fight to keep it or it will be taken away from him. This is, again, to ensure that the species survives; the one who wins the right to be an alpha male is the one most likely to father strong offspring.
Of course, that's all very good for the animal kingdom, but how does this pertain to the human world? Simple. Humans have their alpha males too, the criteria by which they are classified is just a bit different. There are many different ways by which a male can be classified as alpha.
- The Powerful Alpha. This is the man who wields the most power, both in their place of business and among their community of friends. Women who are attracted to this type of alpha have probably fixed their sites on a business tycoon or a politician, if not royalty. These women want position and the power that it brings.
- The Intellectual Alpha. These are the men who are able to provide brilliant dissertations on any topic. These will probably go forth to receive PhDs and save the world. Most of these will be found spending their lives in their offices or laboratories working side by side with their mates.
- The Military Alpha. Women love a man in uniform, and the more bars and stripes he happens to be sporting the better. These men have power, a sense of adventure and incredible stories to tell over the dinner table (assuming, of course, that the majority of the conversations they have about their lives do not contain the words, "That's classified"). Their mates can also count on them to be out of the country for the better part of the year so that a livable harmony never has to be developed.
- The "Bad Boy" Alpha. This alpha takes many forms. He may be military or law enforcement-black ops or undercover, of course. He will have a shady past that he never reveals and at least one criminal element has issued a price on his head. He will wear black and not converse a great deal, assuming that the women he is with will know what it is that he wants.
- The Artistic Alpha. This will be the man who sells his paintings in a downtown museum but has had showings in Italy and France. He will have a small cottage on the beach and he and whoever his lady of the moment is will spend their days (and nights) home eating strawberries dipped in chocolate and reciting poetry to each other.
Sound familiar? Every man in the world has known someone who fits into one of these categories and every woman has wanted to date one. They are the few, the proud, the alpha males
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( 3 / 789 )What is it exactly that makes a woman see a man as romantic? Most of the time it's the little things that women notice. A glance, a quick touch or brush across her back. Sure, flowers are nice, but haven't they almost become a cliché. That's not to say women don't like flowers because they do, but if that's all you've got then it will only go so far. You have to mix it up, change your style and use your imagination to create romantic moments.
The key factor in creating romantic moments is to put the lady’s likes ahead of your own.
Creating romantic moments is so easy it’s a wonder every man in the world doesn’t “get” this. All you have to do is think of an activity built around something she likes to do. Does she like shopping (not something men even like to think about much less do), fine dining, walks on a beach, watching movies and the list goes on.
It's all about doing something she likes with her. What will make such activities seem even more romantic to her is if you choose to do something she likes to do with her when a ball game is on TV that you could be watching with your buddies. She will feel chosen…and that, sir, is VERY romantic indeed.
It doesn’t matter which activity to choose to participate in with the woman that you want to think of you as romantic. The trick is for you to be totally involved mentally in the activity and not staring off into space or obviously just wishing it were over so you could go do what you really want to do. Remember this is you trying to be romantic so concentrate on the project at hand.
It really is so very easy to create romantic moments. With only a little thinking and planning, romantic moments can happen every day and at the most unexpected moments. Being romantic is a win/win situation. There is no reason not to make romantic moments happen at every opportunity.
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( 3 / 769 )Many of the same things work for online flirting that work for “brick and mortar” flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting.
Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being Over The Top.
If you go too far, she will label you “slimy” If you don’t go far enough, she will label you “wimpy”.
So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language? All you have is a computer, an internet connection and Free membership at Fleshpot, right?
That is just no longer the case. All the stigma of online sex is gone. Online sex has gone main stream and is, not only acceptable, but expected. Online sex has become the primary tool of single people of all ages to generate an interesting and rewarding social life.
1. Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.
2. Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit the “feel good” factor. An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.
3. Compliment her…and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say “thank you”. Do Not be self depreciating.
4. Listen…listen….listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Works wonders!
5. Don’t be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach.
6. Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.
Don’t try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.
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